Family and Arguements

FAMILY

  A family a is a group of people who wants to do good to you and other members of this group.

This doesn't mean parents, you and siblings it rather means anyone who is close enough and want all the good to happen to you. Want to make your life better with their experiences.

See the problem is here no one in today's world share their everything to anyone specific we are so self obsessed that we share our stuff with people who speaks in our favor and hence we get what we want but not what is better for us. 

Due to this people who really want to make things good are left behind and we are stuck with others who speaks to our favor and we make mistakes. After which we realize that the person staying with us is not good  and the one really wanted to make things good is left behind.

Family that wants best of us usually argue about things they disagree with and in return we argue our points of disagreement with them. This conversation of disagreement leads to weak bonds of relationship.

What should we do then?

We want to do whatever we want and they wont let us but they are family so the very best decision here is to come at a mutual point were none of the members have to be totally uncomfortable. That's what families do.

Family stick together to support each other in hard times and to celebrate each other's good.

The solution of any problem or disagreement in a family to talk the hearts out and boom!! done

Things to take note of while talking.

1. Everyone on the table needs to be POLITE and KIND with the words they choose to speak.

2. Try not to bring the past into the present to effect the future.

3. Everyone should be on the same page before the discussion. (everyone should be ready to adjust a little instead of forcing one to accept all of it)

TRY AND TALK TO YOUR FAMILY REGARDING ANY GOING ON ARGUMENT AND TELL IN THE COMMENT DID IT WORK.